At Six Months

We almost have Gibbs into a routine.  He is going to camp three days a week, which means that three days a week he is too tired to cause any trouble at all.  He is still barking too much for me to be comfortable taking him out in public for real, and he has no leash manners.  But I just picked up a pass to Glenview’s dog park, the Community Bark West.

I didn’t name it, folks.

I know that he is perfectly socialized with other dogs, and am hoping that he will start to get used to seeing strangers, while he is playing with the other dogs.

He still isn’t used to the football thing.  This is where he spent half of the first quarter:

I wasn’t about to tell him not to soak up the sun while he still can.  He doesn’t know what winter is yet.

Besides that, Game Day is a great big danger zone for the potty accidents.  Because he still isn’t very good at telling me that he needs to go outside.  And I can’t stop to ask him every ten minutes.   Not when Matt Forte could light it up on any given play.

No accidents yesterday.  Although Gibbs slobbered up half a bowl of water and promptly vomited up his lunch.

Puppies.  When do they outgrow that nonsense?

Parrot Week

It is Parrot Week at Best Friends Animal Sanctuary.  They have posted bunches of stories and videos.  This is a particular favorite of mine, since Baby does the exact opposite of what Kiwi the Grey does – I hang the toys and Kiwi tears them down.  Eventually.  When she feels like it.

About Trio and Vitriol

A couple of weeks ago, I wrote about the Trio Animal Foundation, a group that raises funds to help homeless animals get the medical care they need.   A week or so thereafter, I received a rather scathing comment about how terrible they are, how I should research before endorsing such a group, and it is a sad day when Trio gets such support.  The comment referenced Trio exaggerating the circumstances under which a dog was taken into the program – a situation which Trio has already addressed on its Facebook page.  It is pretty detailed, so I won’t copy it here, but the entry is dated August 26 and it is good enough for me.
Also, the commenter wanted to “educate” me on how animals can be fearful.
Seriously.
The rest of the complaints seemed to me like the petty political things that sometimes happen in/between/among rescue groups.  Or any non-profit.  Or business. Or neighborhood barbecue..when everyone has a better idea of how things should be done.
I considered responding. I thought it over for a couple of days and decided against it for a few reasons:
First, there were no facts and references.  There weren’t even allegations that the group wasn’t spending the donations received on the care for the animals – which is what I care about most.
Second, it was mean spirited.  I wasn’t about to debate with someone engaging in what seemed to be a personal attack.  I am not a representative of Trio – I simply posted on my personal blog that I like their work.
Finally, it was Anonymous.
At the same time, I didn’t want a mean-spirited comment sitting on my blog, so I deleted it.
So you can guess what happeneAnonymous has left a new comment on your post “Trio Animal Foundation“: 
wow, so you think if you delete my comment it will not matter, just more proving you are not intellectual or wanting to help animals. do the research, trio has sponsered a dog name geiger who the president of trio adopeted but not long ago the same asked for extra donations to get help for the dog even when it was a dog in her care. Frank, it is neyond shafy you keep this post up on the mist questionable animal “nonprofit” agency in chicago. Your opinion should come with a warning about not being helpful just like trio’s. Seriously do actual resarch before you give horrible organixations like this adverisement

So here is my response:

Dear Anonymous:
Your opinion should come with your name.   And spell check.
P.S.  I have set up a project on Crowdrise to support Trio’s work.  Here is the link.

Heartland Animal Shelter

Heartland Animal Shelter in Northbrook was featured on WGNTV yesterday.  I can’t seem to embed the clip, but you can find it here.  And this is one of the puppies featured:

As if I need to be seeing any more Border Collie puppies.  I popped over to their website to check out the November 5 fundraiser and found that October is Adopt-a-Shelter Dog month – according to somebody.  I say that every month is Adopt-a-Shelter-Dog month, but whatever.  Here is how Heartland is celebrating it:

“To helppromote adoption of Heartland’s dogs, we are offering either a Carson PirieScott Dog Bed, a Dog Crate, or a Collar with Leash with each dog adopted (whilesupplies last).  Also, with each dog adopted, receive a raffle ticket forfree admission for 2 to Heartland’s Golden Paw Gala on November 5th (worth$150)!  Drawing will be on Oct. 31st.  


Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet, by Jamie Ford

Book 45

This book is the reason I pick up so many of the modern book club favorites.  Because every once in awhile, one is so good that it restores my faith.

1986.  Chinese American man aged 56ish loses his wife to cancer.  In his melancholic haze, he reads that an old boarded up hotel has been sold, and the new owner has discovered a bunch of WWII era stuff that presumably belonged to “evacuated” Japanese families.

Henry recalls his friendship with a Japanese American girl and her family in 1942.  He obtains permission to search the stuff.  Drama ensues.

The thing I like best in this book is that even in Henry’s 12-year old perspective, he finds sympathetic adults that appreciate him, help him and keep him safe – both from baddies and from the harsh old world judgement of his father.  The thing I like least (SPOILERS) is the old “daddy kept the letters from getting through” gambit.  Seriously, it was so obvious that I didn’t even think of it.  I seriously thought there was going to be a reasonable explanation.

I also like that despite the title of the book, there is a surprising lack of bitterness displayed by most of the characters.  There are a couple generations of people here that have a few reasons to hate the world, but almost no one takes that route.

Score one for the bestseller list.  This time.

Blankets 50 – 52

I finished these between Wednesday and Sunday:

The above pink fleece with Red Heart Soft yarn in Plummy, left over from a previous project.

Above has two rows of Red Heart yarn in Light Coral and two rows of white.

And three rows of Red Heart yarn in Cherry Red.  I almost didn’t have the nerve to use red, but I like the way it turned out.  My mother would say that dog looks just like Rin Tin Tin.

New Favorite Dog Toy

Gibbs likes these:

They are called Hide & Seek toys.  His current favorite is actually from Martha Stewart, because it has some kind of crinkly plastic in it that makes a lot of noise.  Of course, then he loses the little stuffed toys.

As it happens, Drs. Foster and Smith sell refills of the stuffed toys.  But they cost $8.00 and I didn’t have enough other stuff to justify an order when I was looking.  But today, I spontaneously decided that Gibbs needs a Big Boy Collar, so I went in to PetsMart.  They didn’t have the refills, but they did have some little stuffed toys from Kong:

Actually, the one I bought is a brighter green.  It is the right size to stuff in the Hide & Seek toys and was on sale.  I think three of them cost me $10.  It is “low stuffing” and has a squeaker inside.  It even came with an extra squeaker, which I don’t think I will be using.  Although it did occur to me for five seconds that I should try to talk my mother into making some toys for him.  The squeakers would work for that purpose.

Anyway, Gibbs loved it.  He took it out of the Hide & Seek toy and ran of squeaking it.  And squeaking.  And squeaking.  He finally dropped it and I went over to “reload”, but the “fur” is all wet.

I wouldn’t want it to get mildewy.  And I’m glad I got three.

My Favorite Person Today

Because The Bride wants to hear more about my mother and less about my blankets, I will tell you that I brought her home from the hospital – for the third time – last Tuesday.  I don’t think she will mind my telling you that she needed surgery to remove a large mass on her ovary and while they were in there, they just took the rest of her reproductive system.  Then she developed an infection, then she had an allergic reaction to the anti-biotics.  She is nauseous and in pain most of the time, but she doesn’t have cancer, which is, I think the important thing.

So. Tuesday night.  I will spare you the debacle, but the punchline is that it took two pharmacies and over two hours of my time to get the drugs that she needed.  And no one seemed particularly interested in the fact that I’d been waiting all freaking night for this stuff.  I was sorta hating the world right then.

So today, I walked into the Noodles & Company in Glenview.  I am a serious regular.  I have regular orders and a regular table.  I generally come in by myself, on the early side of the rush, order some pasta and read my book.

Today, I decided to bring home stuff for my mother.  I asked for a bowl of pasta for myself, and some other stuff to bring home.  This is not the first time in the last month that I have done this, but the young lady at the register was a bit thrown.  She called over a more senior staffer, who also had trouble making it happen.  I realized I was making things difficult and was ready to tell them to just place it in two separate orders.  It didn’t make much difference.  Then Stacy saw me.

She punched my order in, in about five seconds, while asking how I am because she hasn’t seen me in awhile.  I told her that my mother was still laid up, which was why I was placing a complicated order.  She didn’t ask for details, just whether Mom was going to be ok, which she is.

She said that she would bring my pasta out right away, and make the carryout order when I was ready to go.  Then she comped my bowl of pasta.  “Don’t even (argue),”  she said.  “It wasn’t a problem order and you shouldn’t have had to wait.”

Can I tell you?  One friendly acquaintance with whom I do business noticed that I was having a crappy time and made my day.  So:

Dear Noodles & Company:  Glenview.  Stacy.  Rocks.

Press for Project Linus

I wasn’t able to make the Project Linus Starbucks night this month, but I popped in to drop off blankets and pick up some prepared fleece.  All were abuzz about how Harry Porterfield of CBS News came to visit with his news crew.  Here is the video of the story that ran tonight in his People You Should Know segment:

That Thing in Georgia

I am not all that familiar with the Troy Davis case.  I know that he was executed and there was a great deal of controversy, as many people doubted that he was guilty of the crime.  I had been reading headlines on this case for only a few days.  I couldn’t even bring myself to read all the details, and I felt sick when I read that the execution was imminent.

I have no idea whether Troy Davis killed a police officer.  No idea.  But the older I get, the less I approve of capital punishment.

When I was in high school, and all right-wing about it, my civics teacher told our class that between 1900 and 1990, 300 people were executed in the U.S. and later found to be not guilty of the crimes for which they died.

Three hundred.  That sunk in.  And I talked about it for while.  I remember some adult in my life – I don’t think it was one of my parents – heard the stat and said, “You have to believe that most of those 300 were early in the century before the development of modern forensics.”

Maybe.  I eventually let it drift to the back of my mind where I store things that I don’t really want to think about anyway.

Then something was found to be rotten in the State of Illinois.  Stop laughing.  A journalism professor at Northwestern University names David Protess led his students in investigating a whole slew of controversial convictions and the work ended up freeing several prisoners that were wrongly convicted – including some on death row.  He has now started a non-profit to continue the work.

The State of Illinois owned the fact that something was wrong.  The governor put a moratorium on executions.  Later, the assembly abolished the death penalty altogether.  It doesn’t really fix the problems on the front line of criminal justice, but with this action, Illinois definitively put a stop to the greatest injustice of all.

I gotta tellya.  There is not a whole lot for which to be thankful in my state government.  But last night, I was feeling it.  Not proud.  But..satisfied.  That my state got onto the right side of this issue.